Good night, Greetings, Salutations, Shalom, Namaste, As-Salamu Alaykum...
So I was wondering tonight, what is the difference between someone who is a complete "puppy dog" over someone, and someone that is just in general a nice, thoughtful person. In my honest opinion the two are one in the same. I find as a society we have a tendency to single out the nice "guy/gyal" and quickly label them, bazodee, sprung, whipped, puppy dog etc etc. Why is this though?
No seriously.... WHY? is it that we are so unaccustomed to people actually doing nice, considerate, sweet things for people they care for, simply because they want to, without agenda. Is it that we don't truly believe these people exist? Because let me tell you, they do exist! I know this for a fact because well I am proudly guilty.
You see when i'm with someone I can't help but want to do random sweet things for them. Just ask any of my partners. I've never done so because I expected it in return, or because I wanted anything at all from them, I just did it because it was something that was in my power to do, and it was something I felt like they would appreciate.
But wait, I suppose I do have a hidden agenda, I actually enjoy... making... my current partner... HAPPY! and seeing her... SMILE! How absolutely selfish of me...
But it's no scene, the next time someone wants to call me sprung, or whipped, or anything of the sort, because I picked my partner flowers, made her coffee, make sure she's always eaten, met her at the bus stop etc etc etc I will smile and wear my title with pride... because while my partner is smiling yours just might be wondering where her smile went...
bless up folks!
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